抱歉，现在还不是适合做出决议的季节
现在是新年！您坐在桌旁，开始写下今年的目标，就如往年一样。但是，根据在圣路易斯的华盛顿大学心理与脑科学讲师蒂姆·波诺（Tim Bono）的说法，您可能会犯代价高昂的错误。波诺认
现在是新年！您坐在桌旁，开始写下今年的目标，就如往年一样。但是，根据在圣路易斯的华盛顿大学心理与脑科学讲师蒂姆·波诺（Tim Bono）的说法，您可能会犯代价高昂的错误。波诺认
It’s the New Year! You sit down at your table and begin to write the goals you have for the year because well, that’s what you always do. But you could be making a costly mistake, according to Tim Bono, lecturer in psychological and brain scie
“当你说所有人都会认为这是一个坏主意时，所有人都是谁？” 最近，当我问客户布兰登*这个问题时，房间变得非常安静。几分钟的沉默。而这几分钟显得尤其漫长。在他保持沉默的
“When you say everyone will think this is a bad idea, who is everyone?” When I recently asked my client Brendon* this question, the room got very quiet. For several minutes. Several excruciatingly long minutes. While comfortable with silenc
“我对你不太熟悉，所以我不确定你是否会赞同我的理解，但是当客户在回答问题时，你为什么要发出‘Mmmm’的声音？这让你听起来很消极，”正在旁听教练会谈的同伴说。我坐在
“I don’t really know you, so I’m not sure you intend this interpretation, but why do you say ‘mmmm’ when your client answers a question? You sound very negative,” offered a peer who was listening to a session.